Hi, I’m Sebah Tubman.
I'm a Transformational Life Coach dedicated to helping women reclaim their self-worth and allow God to rewrite their life’s stories.
I’ve been on a personal development and transformational journey for over two decades. I made countless mistakes, but everything changed when I found Christ in 2012. Now, I support women through their transformations, helping them identify and embrace their true worth to become the confident, empowered individuals they were destined to be.
I am a Christian, committed to God for His purpose in my life to be fulfilled on earth. I was born in Liberia, West Africa. In 1999, I had the privilege of representing my country Liberia at the 54th Miss World Beauty Pageant, where I gracefully made it to the 5 finalists.
I am a Certified Life Coach, I coach by the guidance, standards, and wisdom of the biblical principles of the word of God. I use the Transformational and Mindset coaching approach to coach. My confidence as a life coach is in God and the call of God on my life. Romans 8:30: And those He predestined, He also called; those He called He also justified, those He justified He also glorified.
Together, let's embark on a journey of redemption, empowerment, and purpose. Though the road may be challenging, victory is already assured with God on our side. For your shame, God gives double portion blessings.
With Love Sebah.
How did I arrive here, becoming a Christian life coach - an assignment uniquely tailored for me as a believer in the kingdom of God? Let me share a part of my journey with you:
“I was being set up and challenged for the call to help other women overcome and heal as I had to.” It was a significant challenge for me to step forward, due to personal reasons, insecurity, and fear based on my experience with public ridicule, false accusations, and character assassination. One significant challenge stemmed from the heightened attention I received due to being a public figure; Miss Liberia and a Miss World Semifinalist. Despite God's instruction to remain silent and refrain from defending myself, I struggled to dismiss the notion that I needed the vindication I sought.
The desire for public justification, clarification, and vindication is a strong trap the devil uses to keep us bound in fear, doubt, bitterness, and unforgiveness. This caused me unnecessary delay and frustration. Many of us remain stuck, waiting for vindication that should align with the severity of the abuse, hurt, or accusations we faced. This cycle of waiting perpetuates delay, hurt, bitterness, and self-doubt, social anxiety ultimately hindering our progress and causing us to question God.
It took me a considerable amount of time to embrace the truth that I was already justified in Christ and that my vindication comes from God alone. I was trapped in the belief that without public vindication, I lacked credibility and trustworthiness. This lie fueled my fears and doubts, leading me to delay myself and question my worthiness and credibility in fulfilling my assignment. However, these experiences only prepared me more extensively for the call of being a life coach.
The enemy's attacks on my reputation and character were intended to discredit me precisely when God intended to use me. Fear, self-doubt, and imposter syndrome were used to hinder me, disqualify me, and limit my trust in God and my ability to step into my purpose.
Despite being a born-again Christian, a woman of values, substance, and integrity, and being committed to the ongoing transformation plan of God that corrects and convicts me. I wrestled with self-doubt and questioned whether I would be accepted in this role. I recognized that I was chosen and already serving God privately in the lives of many. I faced spiritual warfare that sought to undermine my confidence and hinder my progress.
I surrendered my life completely to God and His life-refining process. I confronted my past, fears, shortcomings, past mistakes, and challenges. I own my story and am allowing God to rewrite the narratives about my life, dispelling the false perceptions that held me back.
Having experienced and overcome these struggles, I now empathize with others who are struggling with similar challenges. I am equipped to help them break free from the false narratives that bind them and embrace their truth, freedom, and purpose.
No one can thwart God's plans, and despite the obstacles I faced, I am determined to fulfill my purpose. Those experiences were the pain that birthed my divine assignments and purpose.
· From Worldly Belief to Born-Again Believer:
I wasn't raised as a born-again believer, but I was raised as a Christian. However, I was baptized as a child. I have always loved the Lord in my way. I've always attended church, but there was no real transformation. I remember reading my Bible as a little girl. I was a naïve Christian, who lived a worldly lifestyle, far from the path I walk today. My early years were marked by poor choices that didn't align with God's plans for my life. this is because I did not know who I was, I did not know my true identity.
· Awakening in 2011:
In early 2011, I began to feel a deep sense of emptiness and felt like I lacked direction for my life. This led me to a profound yearning for God. This was mainly at the time to help me make sense of my life. I started getting into the scriptures and watching more sermons. Despite my spiritual hunger, I still found myself straddling between the ways of the world and the ways of the Lord.
· Transformative Pain in 2012:
In the year 2012, I experienced a significantly painful life-changing experience that shook me to my core. I was publicly falsely accused, shamed, and ridiculed, enduring a character assassination that left me deeply hurt and depressed. I found myself misunderstood and subjected to gossip by both strangers and acquaintances. With all the anguish, I took it very hard. But I refrained from retaliating, as God had instructed me to remain silent and not fight back or revenge.
Little did I know that God had planned to utilize the trials to change my life. He separated me from who I wasn’t unto Himself and gave me the gift of Salvation and my identity in Christ. Through this process, He was destroying my former identity to make me a new creation in Christ.
“Embrace the opportunity to improve your life.”
- Love Sebah
· Encounter with a Life Coach:
Along the way, I encountered a Christian life coach whose guidance helped me piece together a lot in my journey and transition into my purpose with clarity. I saw myself in her, related to her story and her mindset. The experience of having a life coach was a testament to the deep work I had been doing and the importance of working with someone who helped me to go deeper with accountability and feedback.
As a devoted believer in Christ, I am eager to serve and honor God, I found myself struggling with a religious mindset, so fear and doubt crept in. I questioned my calling for a while; whether I was acting by God’s timing and order. Am I restricted to serving in the confines of traditional church settings? The fear of inadvertently seeking personal glory or recognition clouded my intentions. Despite knowing deep down that this wasn't my true motivation. Misunderstandings about fearing God's judgment further enhanced my uncertainty and increased delay. This led to me waiting longer for more confirmations which I had already received in various forms.
· Overcoming Doubt and Opposition:
After certification, I continued to encounter opposition that sought to hinder my journey. Yet, I persevered, guided by God's unwavering love and the assurance of my calling. God continued to affirm His plans for me, providing signs and confirmations along the way. The call and compassion I feel for other women confirm daily my assignment is greater and needed.
Despite the opposition and warfare, I knew deep down that this was a divine assignment. So, I answered the call of God to serve. I underwent the training, faced challenges, and received divine revelations that propelled me forward. Now, I stand ready, anointed, and empowered by God, equipped to help others get clarity, deliverance, and freedom in their personal life journeys. This sense of readiness and assurance came upon me and I am boldly walking in it and excited to help others get the same.
· An Instrument of Deliverance:
Today, I stand as a testament to God's deliverance and transformative power, equipped and eager to serve as an instrument of deliverance in the lives of others. My journey has taught me the value of providing a safe space for vulnerability and healing. A space where individuals can unravel their stories to find healing, clarity, freedom, empowerment, courage, and purpose, and step into their truth and identity in Christ.
Finally: Battle for the Assignment:
After years of preparation and growth, I am ready to walk in my purpose and help others embark on their journeys of healing and transformation. With God's guidance and love, I am committed to fighting alongside my clients, helping them move from brokenness, shame, hurt, stuck, anxieties, confusion, unforgiveness, and fear, to faith, freedom, deliverance, peace, God’s acceptance, victory, purpose, identity, and joy. Etc.
· Trusting God’s Process:
Despite the challenges, I leaned into God even more, seeking His guidance and healing. Over time, as I grew in my faith in God, I was becoming more of my identity in Him. I learned to forgive, let go of false narratives, and embrace my worth in Christ. I started discovering myself through the word of God and with the help of the Holy Spirit. I started to value myself and shed relationships and behaviors that no longer aligned with my newfound identity in Christ. The experiences were of me Unbecoming who I wasn’t to Becoming who I was to be from the beginning.
The journey has been a long and hard one, as a believer, I committed to God, through a personal relationship, the church, fellowship, prayer, fasting, and deep introspection. But through it all, God remained faithful, reshaping my life and mindset, guiding me toward healing, deliverance, and a newfound sense of purpose.
· Revelation and Certification:
January 4, 2022, I uncovered a confirmation while cleaning my email account. I found an email from August 20, 2015, It revealed that I had completed a short exercise to reveal one’s purpose. My result of the exercise revealed that part of my call and purpose was to serve others and help others overcome personal challenges and come to their liberation in Christ through life coaching. I didn't fully comprehend its significance, because I was still going through my healing, renewed identity, and preparation process.
Eventually, I pursued getting a certification to become a life coach, a decision driven by many things.
At the end of every year just before the new year, I tend to take time off to fast and pray for the upcoming year. At the end of 2022, I got two scriptures from God that I knew were His word for me. It was regarding His call on my life and service. They were Isaiah 51:7 and Isaiah 52:2-4. I mention this because it was a significant part of the confirmations.
On December 22, 2022, during fasting and prayer, the Lord gave me a warning. He said: "You have allowed the fear of man to keep you from sharing the wisdom that I gave you."
It took me a few more months after this to get into school and get certified as a life coach.
In the early summer of 2023, I came across a workshop offered by a Christian Life Coaching Academy, I participated but didn't complete it. I had no plans to enroll. Nevertheless, the seed had already been planted. A few days after I received signs confirming that it was time and God's will for me to get certified to be a Life Coach.
After a few months of being in school, I decided to watch the rest of the workshop presentations. There was the word God had given to me in late December 2022: Isaiah 51:7. I was prevented from finishing the workshop because the enemy knew that that word would have resolved all the doubts, I had.
On January 3rd, 2023, my first day back to work after the Holidays, I encountered a lady. I saw her in the hallway, and she looked at me strangely, shortly after I saw her again by the elevator. As I stepped into the elevator, she said to me. "You the Lord have a call on your life." I stepped out of the elevator in shock, and she said when I looked at you strangely earlier, it was because God said to me concerning you, that you are one of His servants and the light of God was upon you.
In December 2023, I got certified as a Certified Life Coach.